“How can I meet someone new when everywhere I look, I see Lucy’s face? Tell me you don’t see her smile in the crust of this chicken pot pie.” —Raj, Big Bang Theory As funny as this may seem, there’s much truth in it. I remember that I saw my Ex everywhere I went. In …
“Why can’t you move on?” “It’s because I love her so much” I replied. “Are you sure that you do?” “Yes, of course I am sure” I answered, irritated by his lack of understanding. I have had or heard this conversation over and over during the last 11 years. That love is the root of …
I’m almost sure that you are feeling terribly alone at the moment. I also know that you might have kids, people to take care of, obligations, daily frustrations, unkind strangers all around you. You are often alone amongst people. I know how it feels. But you are NOT alone. For one, I am here for you, writing …
I’m sure you will like this quote: “The past is like using your rear-view mirror in the car, it’s good to glance back and see how far you’ve come, but if you stare too long, you’ll miss what’s right in front of you.” I know what you think. Am I too staring in the rear-view …
What are defining moments? I talked about crossroads and burning bridges, but what about defining moments? Let me tell you about three of them in my life. When I graduated from university, I took the first job that was offered to me, and I hated it. It paid all the bills, but the huge, heartless …
Here’s what my neighbor said to me right after my breakup happened: “At least you got your health.” Was it comforting? You tell me … I could hardly stop myself from strangling her. But it got me thinking … what is the best comfort you can give someone who has a broken heart? There … …
Let me tell you about a dark period in my life, where I wasn’t at all who I was supposed to be. Please bear with me, there is a lesson in here. I love people … I really do. But it might surprise you that this wasn’t always the case. In fact, there was a …