Please read this quote: “Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be …
This one thing comes up regularly, and I feel I have to set things straight (again). Ever since LovesAGame went online (2007), I am the world’s biggest proponent of the No-Contact Rule, using it to break free from an Ex. And NOT using it to get them back! I have spent an unbelievable amount of time (and …
Yesterday, while I was on my way to the bakery I had an interesting encounter with a dear friend. I ran into Lorraine, whom I hadn’t seen for quite a while. She was staring at a big Weight Watcher billboard, and I could see that she was studying it thoroughly. Lorraine is a kind of …
Recently one of my 8-year old twin girls confided in me about a problem she had. A friend treated her badly, and she wanted to know what to do. “What did she do?” I asked her? “She didn’t wish me a happy birthday at school because she was jealous, she hasn’t invited me to her …
Recently a member of our LovesAGame Community replied to a hurtful outcry by someone in severe pain. It was very well perceived and considered to be extremely helpful. I’d like you to read it, I’m sure it’ll help you too (and please read my explanatory comment below it). “Letting someone you love go is the …
Here’s a recent question from a reader about what to do when your Ex has already move on: “I was wondering if you had any advice on when your ex moves on. Because we were in contact, there was a false hope. And that made him moving on 200x more difficult. He told me I …
Why are you still in pain? Why do you feel so helpless at the moment? Why is it that you still can’t let go? The answer to every question is because you are wasting energy on the wrong things. You are giving away your power … power and energy that you desperately need right now. The …