Here’s Why You Should Not Want Your Ex Back

Here's Why You Should Not Want Your Ex Back
Did you ever search the internet for solutions to your breakup?

Then there’s a good chance you’ve already been exposed to bad advice.

Almost every search term leads to people urging you to “get them back.”

They flood you with promises and techniques on how to do that.

But let me ask you a question.

Is getting your Ex-Partner back really the best course of action for you now?

(Let’s forget for a moment that these people who sell you the idea don’t always have your best interest in mind.)

Would that really make things “good” again? Would it lead into the happy relationship you’ve been looking for?

You know my take on this.

I advise you to NOT try to get your Ex back, mainly because of three reasons:

1. The act of breaking up caused damage which can’t be easily fixed

2. After getting back together again, the problems that led to the breakup in the first place will STILL be there (what makes you think you can work them out this time?)

These two reasons alone are responsible for the fact that a very high percentage of reconciled couples, break up AGAIN within three months.

There is no research on the real numbers here, but in my experience, it’s way over 90% of all couples.

Shocking, right?

What’s the third reason?

That’s the most compelling of all:

3. When someone wants to leave you, let them GO.

What does that mean?

It means, that if someone decides that they don’t want to be with you anymore, DON’T try to persuade them otherwise.

Let them go.

You keep your power and your dignity.

Your attitude towards your Ex is: That’s YOUR loss.

Then you go to work:

  • stop thinking of them
  • accept
  • let go

This is all stuff we teach inside the DETOX Course.

What you need to do now is decide.

Want to give up the idea of getting back together and break free of them once and for all?

Today is a good day to start.

We can help you do this.

Your friend and coach,

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